Strong 2 gether (Opposite But Equal)

Rachna and Jinesh will be posting on this blog their views on Relationships that end up in a gender war. But let us face the facts as both genders can survive better if understood well. This blog is an attempt from both of us to tell the world that interdependence is the best solution as united we stand and divided we fall and hence 2 genders put together makes us strong2gether.

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I am still searching the answer to the question who am I? I was born with unlimited ignorance and with a task to diminish ignorance as much as i can. I just realised that my cannot see my face unless it sees mirror. Similarly I cannot see myself but the world. And hence I realise that I am sitting on an unexplored treasure that I cannot see that is me. And that is where i require God to tell me Who am I?

Tuesday, January 31, 2006

Do you have a conscience?

To you, woman who are planning to file a false case against your husband:

  • Do you have a conscience?
  • Do you feel good to lie and bring an innocent person to jail?
  • Does it feel good to destroy him and his families life for the sake of money?
  • His joy and happiness?
  • To attack those, you are supposed to protect?
  • Who don’t expect any evil from you?
  • How does it feel to know your child will grow up fatherless for the sake of greed?
  • That there is nobody to share the happiness of a growing child with?
  • What will you tell your child when it is big?
  • About its father and paternal grandparents?
  • Is this money you get really worthwhile all this pain you are causing?
  • You marry a man and you stand by him and build a life together, is this not far more rewarding?
  • To build a life in love, trust, and mutual respect?

You reap what you sow! You are the one that should safeguard this family, for it is now your family: your husband, your sister, your brother, your mother, your father. Why else do they say that behind every great man there has to be a great woman?

We are a man’s strength, our husbands solid rock he can hold onto no matter what. We are the ones that bring values into his home and keep up the traditions. We bless him with our love, devotion, our poojas and prayers. We can only be happy together but separation brings only despair. To us, our families, and ultimately our country.

For what? A few rupees that will pay for your living for a few years? And then what?
You will be a lonely, deeply hated old woman with no loving husband to share sweet memories of youth with.

Rachna.

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They seldom realize that they are killing the golden egg laying goose in anticipation of getting the treasure of Golden Eggs all at a time. Alas to find that
1. They were greedy...and
2. The goose is dead.

Both situations, 1 and 2 though sounds short but they are not sweet and rather bitter.

So is the menace of the misuse of section 498A. It was supposed to be used as a shield to protect from and as a weapon that produced assassin and used by assassins. But the false cry of the wolf has landed up in breaking up of joint Indian families since 22 years as a proven destructive formula and still some amendment is anticipated.

Many divorcing brides use section 498A as a weapon to negotiate good amount of alimony from the divorcing groom as the section is one sided and providing a facility for the bride to falsely complain to the police about the fairy tale atrocities that their in laws commit thus making it mandatory for the Indian police to arrest all those involved in the story provided by bride under section 498 A. The Non-bailable, Non Compoundable and Cognizable offence attached with this section makes this section very inhuman.

I too just fail to understand what makes them take such steps that breaks the family. I too would ask those women whose conscience would permit them to take such drastic steps.

Jinesh.